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I think some friendships are too much work, note the word some in that sentence it’s not trying to lose the many I have.

These are the kind where you don’t connect on any level but you are just friends because maybe you shared a hostel or maybe the moderator of the Sunday service forced you to smile and say Hi and now you have awkward moments when you come across each other in corridors and you have conversations with yourself like should I say Hi or blue tick em. Or the guy you were with in wildlife club who only knew three things about you; that you both come from Nakuru county the first day you tried weed it almost killed you, third you don’t know how to get girls, now calls in the middle of a lecture you have no idea what’s happening telling you that tomorrow he’s coming to get his certificates and is coming to sleep at yours this time he speaks in your mother tongue as if that’ll convince you.

I also think good relationships come from good friendships am an old soul I believe in friendships first and then relationships follow. like its impossible for me to like you and ask for contacts and start it off like what will we even talk about I think that’s why I send people these links with that katext of Hi my name is kim I write a blog LETTERPOTTER……I got your number from a group we share…bla.bla..bla…to make it look like I just collected random people’s numbers. It is not random I promise! I want us to start somewhere so when I ask that you comment please do you never know the Lord works in mysterious ways.

So what amazes me is what weird stuff people do in the name of love people out here are making big exaggerated moves for love and that is fine but some shit some of ya’ll do zii manze.

Like yesterday am sindikizaing friends from poetry rehearsals at night so I direct my phone’s torch to a random old car to see the interiors if the owner loves his machine I love vintage cars bytheway and right there on the drivers seat people doing it! I am exaggerating because the car was not squeaking I checked twice. but there was someone on top of someone I mean come on if they have a car they absolutely have a bed or better yet a car’s sit lays backward you’ll hurt your backbone manze.

You guys times have changed. You take a guy’s phone to see what meme’s they have and you are blinded by naked faces of girlfriends of your and those tu fancy fancy dog face 5mb videos. and then I meet you the next day and it’s awkward to me and it will be to you when five of your guy’s dudes see it because we will talk about it I promise,

Someone was telling me there are even WhatsApp groups where people share nudes and talk about them like body shaming and all that crap please I beg don’t or if you must make sure they are deleted please, Jesus did not die on the cross for me to see you naked.